Dear MVRHS Families:
I have some incredibly tragic news to share with you. One of our students, a junior, died tragically last night in a car accident. The high school staff has met to discuss how to best support our students and one another at this time.
Grief counselors from Hospice MV, island community counselors, and school counselors from across the Island schools are on hand for our students. Some of our students found out about this tragedy this morning upon their arrival at the high school, therefore, we wanted to communicate with you as soon as possible. We also want to share resources that we hope will be supportive when your students come home, and may need support in processing their grief today and in the days to come. Please refer to this attachment on ways to support your child through grief.
The school is not publicly sharing the name right now out of respect for the family.
Our job now is to support students, staff and members of the community who are grieving. The way we do that is to continue to teach and follow a schedule as close to normal as possible while holding grace and space for our community to process and grieve. As always guidance is available if you would like to meet with a counselor to talk, or if you have questions.
More information on supports and alterations to our school schedule will be communicated as decisions are made.
If your student reaches out to you today while they are in school, please communicate to them that there are supports for them in the library, guidance offices, or the Student Affairs Office. However, we also understand that you may want to dismiss your child and allow them to be home today. Students may be excused from school with parent communication to the school.
Sincerely,
Sara Dingledy
MVRHS Principal
Grief Resources and Supports
A sudden loss like this can have an effect on students. Sudden death is always painful to understand, and your child may show signs of stress. They may include on or more of, and not limited to, the following:
- Sleep difficulties (e.g., nightmares, trouble falling asleep, sleeping too much)
- Changes in appetite
- Inability to concentrate
- Absentmindedness
- Irritability
- Withdrawing from usual activities and fiends
- Increased aggression or acting out
- Guilt
- Fearfulness and worries
- Sensitivity to change in routine
- Thoughts about death and about other loved ones who might have died
Where to send your student for support:
- If your child already has a relationship with a mental health counselor, it may be important for your student to reach out and let them know that they are struggling with the loss of a peer.
- Enhanced Urgent Care (MV Community Services); M-F 8 am to 8 pm, 508-693-7900 Option 1
- Hospice and Palliative Care of MV; grief counseling available to staff and students by calling 508-693-0189
- School Counselors; please reference MVRHS’ in-school supports by going to mvrhs.org > Health > Mental Health & Wellness OR call the school directly 509-693-1033
- Brightline Pediatric Mental Health; access individual counselors through your insurance at www.hellobrightline.com
- HEARTplay; virtual peer grief groups are available at www.heartplayprogram.org/heartplay-groups
If your child is experiencing a mental health crisis or expressing thoughts of suicide, call 988 or take them to the MV Hospital Emergency Dept.